Healing a Broken Heart With Travel

by | Nov 18, 2022 | Beauty, Fitness & Health, Live Work Play Travel | 5 comments

Heartbreak is unfortunately a common part of life, and it does really hurt. We’ve all been there at some time in our life and it is safe to say that we all try to avoid experiencing heartbreak again. It usually happens when a relationship comes to an end. That being with a romantic partner, a family member, a loved pet and even a job. The stress from the loss can lead to a broken heart. So if you are newly alone, this post is for you. It is about healing a broken heart with travel.

 

What is a Broken Heart?

 

Heartbreak is a metaphor we use to describe how we are feeling after a break up. But you can also have a medically broken heart. Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy is the medical name for a syndrome that can be caused from the stress of heartbreak. The sadness you feel can cause the left ventricle of your heart to become ‘stunned’ or paralysed. And you can feel symptoms like shortness of breath, dizziness, nausea and vomiting and sometimes strong chest pains.

 

Why Does a Broken Heart Hurt so Much?

 

It seems, our brain registers the emotional pain of a broken heart similar to physical pain. This is why you can feel like your heart has been ripped out! It also seems hormones have something to do with it. Love is addictive, like a drug and our brain releases happy hormones, particularly Dopamine and oxytocin when we are in love. When we have a ‘break up’ the hormone level drops and is replaced with the stress hormone cortisol. Too much cortisol can contribute to anxiety and nausea and other negative mental and physical symptoms associated with heartbreak. Tending to this heartbreak can feel like a full-time job and you often wake up wondering when these feelings will pass. 

 

How Do You Heal a Broken Heart?

 

I’m going to add here that old adage ‘you will heal with time’, because it is true. Over time, all the stress from the ending of the relationship will become less. But one way in particular, and what this post is really about is healing your broken heart with travel.

 

Healing A Broken Heart With Travel

 

So how do you mend a broken heart with travel? Well firstly, you need to get out of the routine you currently are in. It will be hard as you are probably use to meeting your partner to go out and now you find yourself alone. This is where solo travel can really turn your life around. Imagine escaping to a new destination to help distract you from ‘missing’ that loved one or thing you have lost. The benefits I have found I highlight following.

 

Benefits of Travel to Mend a Broken Heart

 

Travel can be daunting, particularly if you decide to travel solo, but even more so when your heart is broken. At the same time it can be rewarding and help you recover. Each of the following benefits can help to heal your broken heart.

 

Rediscover Yourself

 

Travelling forces us into new situations, some of these maybe awkward and you will need to draw on your inner self to cope with these situations. Travel can help you get to know yourself again and show you, you can do things without needing that other person or thing in your life. 

 

Travel will Help You Make New Memories

 

Forget the ‘remember the time we did this’ and start creating new and exciting stories.

 

Meet New People and ‘Forgot’ About the Old

 

Travelling will help mend your broken heart by allowing you to meet new people. I’ve always found when I’ve travelled alone I make more of an effort to meet new people. This is because I am not giving my full attention to my travel partner. Even if it is just a quick conversation while sharing the same seat on a bus or train, that interaction will help you feel better. If you don’t want to travel on your own, why not join a group tour. Meeting other people, who may or may not be heart broken themselves will help distract you from how you are feeling and hopefully bring you ‘back to life’ and seeing things ‘through rose coloured glasses’ again.

 

Face Your Fears

 

Doing some travel with a broken heart will help you face your fears. Travel can make you stronger so when you go back to your ’normal life’ you will be stronger to deal with what you are faced with.

 

Places Not to Travel to with a Broken Heart

 

If you are travelling with a broken heart I highly suggest you avoid ‘honeymoon destinations’. There is nothing worse watching couples enjoying their love for each other when you have just had your heart broken. I would definitely avoid Paris and some beach resorts with romantic night lighting for dining!

 

Places to Travel with a Broken Heart

 

I would suggest you take your newly single self to a big city and get lost in the crowds. Go see the sights. Take a walking tour. Eat in places where eating on your own isn’t an issue. Or perhaps go off grid, camping and hiking and getting back to nature where you can prioritise your mental and physical health and mend that broken heart. Maybe a yoga retreat to pamper yourself is more up your ally. Or perhaps move abroad and work and travel in another country on a working holiday visa or as a digital nomad. Throwing yourself into working in another may help in mending your heart. Wherever you choose, taking the first step to mending your broken heart is a must. If you don’t, you could get lost in the darkness which is not what you want. You will need accommodation during your ‘healing trip’ so check out Booking.com to get a good deal.

 

Are You Ready to Begin Healing Your Broken Heart with Travel? I hope so!

 

I know it is easy to get a bottle of wine and drink yourself into oblivion after a breakup or loss, however, I do hope you consider travel to help mend your broken heart. Travel is more than just travel of discovering new places and cultures, it can be therapeutic too. I cannot guarantee travel will mend a broken heart, but it definitely can begin the healing process.

 

Some Travel Inspiration to help Heal Your Broken Heart

5 Day London Itinerary
1 Month Japan Itinerary
How to Spend 2 Days in New York
Spend a Week in Cancun, Mexico
How to Work and Travel Abroad

a broken heart PIN. A red heart broken.

Thanks for sharing!

Useful Travel Resources for Your Next Adventure!

 

Accommodation: Where Will You Sleep Tonight? If you want a bed in a hostel dorm find a great deal with HostelWorld. I mostly stay in hotels now, Booking.com is my favourite site for booking hotels from budget to ‘I feel like splurging’. For something completely different I house and pet sitting through Trusted Housesitters – this has saved me thousands on accommodation, no joke!

Flights: I always head to Skyscanner first to find a cheap and flexible flight.

Car Rental: When I need to rent a car I turn to RentalCars.

Train Travel: I love riding the train rails and get the best value from raileurope. And Japan has a great one too – JapanRail Pass.

Bus Travel: Check out Busbud for bus tickets.

Pre-organised Tours: I’ve been on a few in my time with Contiki being my first and favourite. if you are 18-35 years of age you should check them out.

Jump-the-queue entrance tickets: I don’t enjoy standing in long queues which is why I book my entrance tickets and day trips in advance. My favourite website to book them in advance is GetYourGuide.

Travel Insurance. There are a number of reasons why travel insurance is important and I never travel without having bought a policy as you never know when something might happen. SafetyWing is great digital nomads and long-term travellers.

 

Sharyn McCullum In A Black T-shirt With Her Live Work Play Travel Logo In The Shape Of A World.

Hi. Sharyn here, the face behind Live Work Play Travel. I’ve been travelling all my life thanks to my dad who worked for an airline. My aim with this blog is to help you work abroad or work online and travel the world.   Read more.

 

Do You Need Accommodation Tonight?



Booking.com

Join Me and Subscribe

Travel Like a Pro with a copy of Ready, Set, Go – Travel

Three Suitcases Standing On Top Of The World For The New Cover For Ready, Set,Go - Travel Your Pre-planning Guide For Your Overseas Adventure.

Is London Calling You for a Working Holiday?

Big Ben At Parliament House On The River Thames in London At Sunset Is The Image On The Front Cover Of Live Work And Play In London And The UK.

Teach English Abroad or Online

Teaching English Abroad Or Online Is A Great Way To Earn Money To Fund Your Travels Just Like The Female Writing On A White Board Teaching.

Sharyn McCullum In A Black T-shirt With Her Live Work Play Travel Logo In The Shape Of A World.

 

Hi, Sharyn here. I’m the face behind Live Work Play Travel. I’ve travelled all my life thanks to my dad who worked for an airline – thanks dad! I’ve been a travel writer/blogger and living a location independent lifestyle since 1993. My aim with Live Work Play Travel is to provide you with the info to start living, working and travelling around the world like I do. I currently live in Melbourne with my partner and 2 kids. 

5 Comments

  1. simplyjolayne

    Some type of retreat or spa vacation seems like it would be just the ticket for easing your mind. Great tips.

    Reply
  2. Linda Jane

    Travel really is a great distraction when you’re feeling heartbroken and I’ve found it’s the best way to find yourself again. Travelling alone after a broken romance and after losing my Dad was good for the spirit and helped me to feel happy & alive again.

    Reply
  3. Sarah

    This is what I have been doing over the last year. My partner literally dropped down dead in front of me last year and I’m devastated. Travel helps and has been my therapy, but I don’t think my broken heart will ever truly heal.

    Reply
    • Sharyn McCullum

      So sorry to hear that, but I’m glad travelling is helping you to heal.

      Reply
  4. Samantha

    I love this post! There’s no better cure for a broken heart 🙂

    Reply

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Blue and Pink Sunset Over Mountains to Work Abroad, Work Online, Travel the World.

Get Ready to Travel and Work Abroad

 

with my free International Travel Checklist and make living, travelling and working abroad a breeze.

You have Successfully Subscribed.